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5 Ways to Make a Girl WANT to KISS YOU

5 Ways to Make a Girl WANT to KISS YOU


Matt: Eight out of ten women believe that the
first kiss will tell them everything that they need to know about a
relationship and believe me she has definitely thought about it that first
kiss with the girl can seem really daunting like there’s just so much
pressure on you to make it perfect and of course you don’t want to get rejected
when you go for the kiss but just watch this video until the end to save
yourself some embarrassment and make a flawless first move every time Matt
earnest in here with the attractive man and today I’ll be counting down the top
five ways that you can make a girl want you to kiss her and make sure to watch
into the end because the last one is my personal favorite we’ve done all the
testing and you know what works the main thing that you need to be comfortable
with before attempting any of the following is tension creating and even
playing with the tension that happens the moment right before the kiss is
really gonna make or break how effective the kiss really is and as humans we’re
naturally inclined to break any and all tension which is good news for you
because as you create that tension when you’re about to kiss her she’s gonna be
naturally inclined to want to break the tension by kissing but if you fail to
master the art of creating tension well that kiss attempt is probably gonna land
flat take this scenario you invite a girl over to your place to watch a movie
and then somewhere in the middle of the movie you lean in and you try to kiss
her and what does she do she backs away right she dodges it does
it ever happen to you well I know it’s definitely happened to me a few times
what I realized is that the women were just really into the movie so don’t pick
a really interesting movie if you’re gonna try to kiss her in the middle of
it and I didn’t create any moment it just kind of came out of nowhere there
wasn’t any build-up anticipation and there certainly wasn’t any tension
luckily for you I’ve compiled five easy and effective ways to create some
tension and make that girl want to kiss you before we get started make sure to
click that subscribe button down below and hit that Bell notification icon so
you don’t miss a thing starting off with number five we have the playful approach
this will show off your fun-loving personality while also being the perfect
segue into a kiss start off with a playful childlike activity and start to
amp it up a little bit more making it just a
little bit more essential for example you can do this through tickling or play
wrestling take this for example you’re hanging out with a girl preferably on
your couch or on your bed or at least somewhere private
this wouldn’t necessarily work that well in a bar or at a coffee shop if you guys
are really hitting it off then you can try a playful tickle battle you can just
ask her if she’s ticklish and then start tickling her and this works really well
because she’ll probably tickle you back and it’ll involve a lot of body contact
allowing you to get very close to each other which is a surefire way to really
ramp up the tension which she’s gonna want to break also if you guys are
playfully tickling each other or wrestling you can also wrap your arms
around her which is gonna allow her to feel your sense of security and make her
feel safe and of course make her automatically see you as a more
masculine man which of course is one of the most attractive traits that a man
can have number four is the clever approach now this one’s a little
different because it actually doesn’t involve any body contact so if you’re a
little wary about where to touch a girl without freaking her out then this is
probably the method for you and by the way if that’s you I created an entire
video on how to touch a girl and I’ll put the link of that down in the
description now this method is really great and fun because it involves the
use of clever games let me give you an example one time back in college after a
party I was hanging out with this girl at I think was a frat house and I see a
dartboard on the wall so I go I pick up one of the darts and I said hey if I hit
the bull’s eye you owe me a kiss and I hit the bull’s eye I’m pretty good at
darts and it worked she loved it just make sure whatever you pick whatever
game it is make sure you’re pretty good at it and you know make sure you win
another option is playing the question game or 20 questions and I’ll put a link
of a video where I explain this game down in the description as well so make
sure you guys you check out the description before you leave this video
anyways I know this sounds a little bit lame but hear me out because girls love
talking about themselves that’s why this game works so well girls love this so
when you’re hanging out with her just bring up the idea of playing either the
question game or 20 questions and just start asking questions that increase
the tension and the intimacy over time until finally get to the last question
which could be something like how much do you want to kiss me right now well
let’s find out and she’ll probably answer by kissing you or by saying that
she wants you to kiss her and this approach can be great especially if
you’re a little bit nervous about going for the kiss because it can save you
embarrassment because it kind of acts like a safety net because you’ll
immediately know after asking her that question or making that bet whether she
wants you to kiss her or not just by her answer to the question and by reading
her body language and facial expressions moving on to number 3 we have the flirty
approach which is really great because it involves talking about kissing before
actually kissing her which might sound a little counterintuitive but let me
explain one time I was watching a movie with a girl and instead of just reaching
over and kissing her out of the blue and her dodging it because there’s no
tension I waited for a kissing scene in the movie and I made a comment about it
I bet you’re not even a good kisser but I’m tempted to find out eventually it
led into a conversation about kissing favorite ways of kissing who’s the
better kisser until eventually we had to prove to each other who the better
kisser is and the reason this approach works so well is because talking about
something before actually doing it plants the seed it plants the idea into
her head it makes her think about it which of
course increases the tension now I know this one involves a little bit more
advanced conversation skills so you can make it 10 times easier for yourself by
downloading my free conversation cheat sheet that I listed down in the
description box which is going to easily outline how you can effectively escalate
the conversation like a pro so that you can create more tension and go for a
kiss smoothly without rejection make sure to check it out at the end of the
video because it’s absolutely free number two is called the intense
approach which is going to use body language to increase the tension first
you’ll need her full attention she’ll have to be looking right at you and you
guys are gonna have to make eye contact this is really important because
prolonged eye contact not only increases tension but prolonged eye contact is
actually scientifically proven to increase bonding between two individuals
and actually releases a bonding horn called oxytocin which is a hormone
that’s also released during orgasm so once you catch her gaze you can add in a
little bit more tension some nuances such as letting your knees touch if you
guys are sitting or pushing a lock of hair behind her ear now this works
really well and will likely end with her breaking the tension by you two kissing
all right before I get to number one which is my favorite and I think creates
the most tension creates the most movie moment that she’s absolutely gonna love
book yourself a free breakthrough session where we’ll hop on a call and
assess your situation and figure out how to get to your dating goals in the
fastest most efficient way possible number one is called the spontaneous
approach which is going to be the hardest to pull off but it’s also the
most memorable which is why women love it so much it doesn’t seem forced and it
doesn’t seem rehearsed and it’s oftentimes how you see couples kiss for
the first time in a movie so it’s gonna be really special for her now this could
be as simple as walking from one venue to another venue and maybe you’re
holding hands and you just stop and you say something like oh I forgot something
and you just kiss her the key here is to find a moment where you’re pretty sure
she’s gonna kiss you back but she doesn’t necessarily expect you to go for
the kiss so for this one you’re gonna want to be very cognizant of where the
interaction is going to know exactly when to go for it so for example if you
two are crossing the street and you grab her hand to show her that you’re keeping
her safe and protecting her and she seems okay with that and even when you
reach the other side she’s still holding your hand that’s a pretty good indicator
that she really likes you because it’s very coupley to hold hands especially if
you guys switch and hold hands like this this is more intimate hand-holding which
is a good indicator that she’ll be receptive to you going for the kiss by
the way when you go for the kiss I recommend using the 90/10 rule which
means you go in ninety percent of the time which creates a ton of tension
because you’re right in front of her face and then she will likely close the
other ten percent gap and release the tension by kissing him the secret to a
kiss 90% it away for how long long as it
takes now make sure to let me know down in the comments below which one of these
is your favorite or most excited to try out or that you have tried out and
hopefully it worked really well or maybe you have some other ways of going for
the kiss that are really romantic or create an awesome moment that you’re
down to share with everybody else hey I’d like to hear it myself
maybe I’ll try it and while you’re there check out the free conversation cheat
sheet that I talked about earlier down in the description below so that you
know exactly what to say when you first see a girl how to
approach her how to keep the conversation going so you don’t run out
of things to say and keep the conversation flowing in a way that
builds a lot of attraction and actually gets her to start chasing you it’ll also
be a link to the right of this screen in just a second so check that out and
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to a city near you because the best way to get results with women is through
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really appreciate it my name is matt artisan from the
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Comments (27)

  1. Man ! PLease drop some Digital Courses , Not everyone get to go to the 1 o 1 cochning

  2. I loves this channel

  3. I have following you since 2017, but you did only coaching bootcamps , please make a digital course . I love to watch and learn then implement .

  4. Any dudes out here who date a lot but never kiss (as little as possible)?

  5. #1 I have tried this before and it works smoothly

  6. you are amazing mann keep doing what you are doing ??

  7. I bet her: “if I’m able to hit the gum into the sewer in front of her flat (btw it’s in the 3rd floor)”.
    I’m not good at basketball or anything like that but guess what. I made it?????

  8. What is that film?

  9. How can I start a conversation with a lady who's close to me

  10. "I bet you are not really good at kissing. Well, let's find out…" really?

  11. Kissing isn’t difficult if you know she’s into you. The hardest part is how to know she’s into you. Yeah you can be blunt and ask, but it would be cool to know without needing to ask.

  12. Also the Shining might not be the most romantic movie to move in for the kiss to. It might mean that if that movie turns you on, you might have mental issues.

  13. 2 years ago around Halloween, I had a random girl who asked me for a kiss, and I did.
    Felt so good!(I wish I had her Instagram though?)

  14. If I guy said “I bet you are not really good at kissing…” my instinct would be to feel insulted and probably say “wow, well I guess you’ll never find out.” ? because 1. I don’t like that kind of flirting and 2. I know exactly what the guy is trying to do and I find that insulting to my intelligence. If two people like each other, there doesn’t have to be games. It’ll just happen naturally. Also, not a fan of the 90/10% thing. Better to go 90%, hesitate for a second if you want to be sure, and then go the last 10%. I find it annoying that they don’t just go for it if I’ve already allowed them to get that close.

  15. How about 5 ways to get a girl to breakup up with her bf for you?

  16. I saw number 1 & 3 as the best way of kissing based on my experience.

  17. First kiss last week thanks to you. It was terrible.
    Subsequent kisses are improving.

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  19. Am I really doing this?

  20. Can't download cheat sheet man

  21. The most important advice from my personal experience: don’t push it and don’t stress about it because if you do it won’t happen, this must come naturally and when it will you will do a great job

  22. If none works just deliver an RKO.she is more likely to kiss you then

  23. It's hard to get that first date in some cases.exactly when I want her more than other high ranking contenders ?

  24. 90% RULE
    5) The Playful Approach 2:00
    4) The Clever Approach 3:22
    3) The Flirty Approach 4:59
    2) The Intense Approach 6:11
    1) The Spontaneous Approach 7:14

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