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How To Text A Girl You Like (steal these text examples!)

How To Text A Girl You Like (steal these text examples!)


It’s Tripp from TrippAdvice.com. I have a special presentation for you on this
video. Today, we are going to be talking about one
of the burning questions that guys come to me and ask in the comments. I want to answer it for you today. How do you text a girl that you like? We are going to answer this, we’re going to
break it down. I’m going to show you some actual examples
from past conversations that I’ve had with girls via text. You’re going to see exactly how it’s done. We’re going to break it down into a simple
formula. You’ll be able to use it for yourself when
you want to text a girl that you like. Before I go into it, I want to tell you about
my Ultimate Guide To Texting. This is one of my latest blog posts. You will find it at trippadvice.com/blog. It is obviously 100% free. It is just one of my blog posts, but it is
the ultimate guide to texting. We break everything down in this guide. Don’t get me wrong, we’re going to go over
some amazing stuff today that is not in the blog post. But see the blog post as something that is
going to transform your texting because it goes into massive detail talking about what
you know exactly what to text a girl when you meet up with her, how to get her to respond
to you if she hasn’t responded yet. Basically every little situation that you
can think of in terms of when you would want or need to
text a girl. Check that out after this video at trippadvice.com/
blog or you can click on the screen. I’ll put a little annotation that will take
you right to there. You can go there after we break down all the
good stuff on this video. Let’s get into it. Basically, what’s the goal? That’s what you need to know. That is the most important thing when it comes
to texting. I’m telling you straight up. What is the goal? I’ll tell you what the goal is. If you don’t already know, the goal is to
get her to meet up with you obviously. The goal isn’t to just text her all day long. Or get into a sexting conversation, which
I will be doing a video about pretty soon here. As much as that is fun, you want to meet up
with her, you want to get with her in person. That is the goal. Knowing that is the goal, you need to make
sure that everything you do regarding texting has to do with trying to achieve this goal. The reason why I have to say this as obvious
as it might seem to you is because I’ve worked with so many guys that have really not understood
that this is the goal. I see them texting the girl all day long,
never trying to get them to meet up. That is the point. Remember that’s the goal. Moving along. We’re going to break this down. There’s two scenarios in which you’re going
to be texting the girl. You either don’t know her, meaning you got
her number at a bar or maybe during the day or you finally just got a girl’s number and
you’re about to text her for the first time. A first time number. We’ll go over what to do with that. After that, I’m going to teach you what to
do if there’s already a girl that you have been interested in, that you got her number
maybe a long time ago, or it’s a girl that’s in your social circles, someone that you like,
and you already know her. I’ll show you how to text that girl as well. Starting with the first time number, I’m going
to tell you about the 48 hour rule. If you ever seen the movie Swingers, which
by the way, I highly recommend you see it because it’s hilarious. It’s an old movie. The guy kept saying it’s an old movie, it’s
only from the 90s. I guess that was 20 years ago. It was Vince Vaughn and John Favreau . They
go out, they meet girls and they talk about when they should contact the girl. It’s really funny because it ends up that
they said, that they contact the girl six days later after getting her number. It’s hilarious. I hope that none of you guys are doing that. I believe in the 48 hour rule, especially
these days. Why the 48 hour rule? Why contact her within 48 hours? That’s because if you don’t, that means someone
else is probably jumping on board and doing it. You’re going to be missing out if you’re getting
a girl’s number, especially a high quality girls number, someone that’s really awesome
and beautiful. There’s a good chance that she’s giving her
number away to other guys as well. You need to jump on board. Also, with mass social media these days, we’re
in contact with so many people that it’s very possible that you’re going to get a girl’s
number. If you text for a week later, she’s going
to actually forget about you. That’s what happens, attraction decreases
as time goes on. That’s exactly what happens. I want you to contact her within 48 hours. You’re going to text her within 48 hours of
meeting her. Here is an example text. This is one that is so simple, steal this,
use this. This is something that I have been coaching
for years. It took me, it’s crazy that it took me a while
to figure out this simple text, but I’m not really into texting weird text. I don’t know, there’s a lot of text game stuff
that makes you sound very gamey and strange. A lot of girls will see through that these
days. This is really simple, hey you! Great meeting you last night. This is something you can play around with,
you meet her last night or a couple days ago. Say the name of the night, great meeting you
Saturday, maybe Sunday, whatever it was. Then you put a cute little saying here, causing
more trouble after I left? dash and your name. The name is important because she might not
remember you 24 hours later. She might be like, wait, who’s that again? What was his name? Because we’re meeting a lot of people, we’re
doing a lot of things. You want to remind her of who you are. Put dash your name. That’s a great opening text. They will work for you. If you’re one of those guys who’s watching
right now, and you’re saying, this is lame, I would never say this. Trust me, if a girl likes you, if you made
a great connection, because that’s what it’s all about. It’s all about making that great connection,
getting her attracted when you first meet her. If you did that correctly, what’s going to
happen is that she is going to be excited that she got this text from you. It’s really simple. She’s gonna want to text back. She’s gonna want to text you back if she likes
you. I’m going to go over my texting formula. If you’ve been watching a lot of my videos,
you might be like, wait a minute, Tripp. This looks very familiar. I’ve seen this before. You are right. You have seen this before. You’ve seen this on how to ask a girl out
on Facebook. Check that video out. I’ll put a link in the description below. This is the same exact formula. The formula being used is just the formula
for any type of social media or contacting a girl, virtually, digitally, whatever you
want to call it. This is the texting formula, same as the Facebook
asking the girl out formula. It’s T1>R1>T2>R2>C. Not to complicate this
anymore. T1 is just your text, that’s your text number
one, which was like this one. Then she’s going to respond, that’s her R1,
then you’re going to text her back, T2, and then she’s going to text back, her response
too, then C is close, meaning you’re going to go for the close. You’re going to go for hanging out with her
right because that’s the goal. Remember, that is the goal. In this second here, I’m going to show you
an example of me using this formula. The general idea of what it looks like so
let’s get into that. I’m in blue and she is in the light gray. This is a few years back. I did basically almost the exact same thing
here. Hey you! How was the rest of your night? I broke my own rule, but I shouldn’t have
done that. I should have put my name after that. Either way, as you can see here, this is the
best par, 9:42am, I remember this text, this message was sent the very next morning. Here’s the beauty of this. I know you’re probably reading these text
messages right now, but listen up for a second. The beauty of this and the reason why I’m
showing you this example is because we talked for five minutes. That’s usually pretty rare, it’s very rare. Not that you can get a girl’s number in five
minutes, but you can get a number so fast and get her interested so fast. That’s the thing. You can connect so fast. I proved to you that even after talking to
a girl for five minutes, connect with her, getting her interested in you and getting
her to like you. Again, you can watch all the other videos
in this channel to learn how to do that. Imagine five minutes and she still responds
the next morning. That goes to show you the proof that when
you really get a girl to like you, it doesn’t matter what you text her. Let’s go into it. Hey you, how was the rest of your night? Then she responds, okay. I mean, she responds. That’s good enough. Hey, good you. We left kind of early. Then I said, where’d you go? Fasting today? I said fasting today because that was referring
to I remember that she was Jewish. There was like a holy holiday. We were talking about the idea of fasting. That’s the reason I want you to learn from
that, that’s like a call back to our conversation. That’s something you’d want to do too, is
called back to something you guys talked about. She gets it right away. She says, just went home. No, I’m not you. It’s funny. She’s not really responding very excited. She has no smiley faces. I said, hell no smiley face. We should hang out. I just go for it. I did exactly the formula. This one for the close. Hell no smiley face. We should hang next week. What’s your schedule like? Then she didn’t respond for a long time so
I sent this text message. I think someone told me that. I did not make this one up. I think she didn’t respond for a whole day. I said, was it something I said? *holds head
in shame* lol. Just because I’m calling her out, I’m like,
hey, where’d you go? We were talking. She was responding pretty quickly. It’s weird how she didn’t respond to that. I was like, this is probably the girl that
is gonna flake. But then she said yes let’s! Now here are the exclamation points. Here’s the excitement. Sorry, I was getting dressed! I don’t know if she was lying or not. Who knows? Then I said, cool. One, what’s your favorite food? Two, what days are you free? See, I’m getting right to the point there. She answers and goes right with it. She goes right along with it, sushi. Tuesday or Wednesday. Then, let’s see. I did love sushi. I’m kind of being cute with there, I love
sushi, which I do. I’m kinda logistics down, Tuesday? 8pm? What area you live in? She said, Brentwood you. I said West lA ish. Very nice. Katsu ya let’s do it. Let’s. What if you already know her? I want to talk to you about something called
the fun factor. What you want to do is when you’re texting
the girl that you already know and you’re trying to get her to respond, you want to
make sure that what you’re saying is fun. You want to turn things into a more fun question
and more fun statement. I’ll give you an example of exactly what I’m
talking about here. The fun factor, an example would be like instead
of saying, hey, what’s up? Instead of texting a girl, hey, what’s up? Pretty boring. I want you to turn that into, you’ll never
guess what I’m doing right now.. That’s very intriguing. That’s going to get her to want to respond
to you. You want to be fun. You want to be intriguing. You’ll never guess what I’m doing right
now. Then whatever you want to do, maybe you are
doing something fun. Maybe you’re doing something lame. That can be funny because it’s like a juxtaposition,
like this is saying that you’re doing something kind of crazy but you’re really not. Play around with it. See how it works for you. Everything’s kind of a test. Another thing, instead of doing hey, what’s
up? You could do something, whatever it is, reminded
me of you, what have you been up to missy? Whatever it is something that reminded you
of the girl. That’s also intriguing. She’s gonna be like, oh, what’s going on? Oh, I popped in his head. Then you can be all cute about it. What have you been up to missy? Another one can be, instead of saying, hey,
what’s up? You can say, omg, what are you doing right
now? That’s gonna get her attention. She’s gonna be like, I’m doing this. Why is he texting me in such a panic and such
a fury? After that, you can be like, you and me have
to get together or something. It doesn’t really matter what you say. The point of these text messages is to get
her to initially respond. If she doesn’t respond after the initial text,
and she doesn’t want to go out with you or hang out with you, then I would drop it. She doesn’t like you at that point. There’s no special fun little quirky magical
line that you’re going to say to her that’s going to all of a sudden get her to want to
meet up with you again. If that does happen, it’s super rare. I’m just being real with you. I’m not going to give you some lame advice
here that’s going to steer you in the wrong direction. These are some good text messages to start
it off. Here’s another one, and what trouble have
you been getting yourself into lately? You can use that as a follow up or you can
use that as an initial text. Again, that’s kind of flirty. I like the little emoticon there. Remember, what’s the goal? The goal is to get her out. I don’t want you to stay in a text message
conversation for days and not eventually asked her out or get her to meet up with you. That is what you want to do. You’re going to gain quicker attraction with
the girl if you meet up with her, rather than trying to do it with some stupid little text
messages. That is the goal. I want to give you some rules in terms of
texting before we close off this video so you know what to do when you guys are in the
middle of a text message conversation. Emoticons when necessary. Here I use an emoticon because I’m just being
flirty and cute. If you’re being flirting, you can throw it
in there. Don’t overuse emoticons because it makes you
look girly. Only use them when necessary and use them
once in a while. Use them if you ever telling a joke. If you’re saying something that might come
off as harsh, like you’re teasing her, throw an emoticon in there to let her know that
you’re flirting with her. Don’t over text. Don’t sound like a bunch of text messages
when she hasn’t responded to you. That’s going to come off very needy. I don’t want you to send very long text messages
either. Don’t put a whole story in a text message. The only exception to that rule is if she’s
doing it first, and you’re responding, you’re having a long conversation. Even if you’re at that point where you guys
are sending each other very long text messages, I want you guys to get on the phone, just
call her. It’s going to be better to connect with her
over voice or in person rather than reading some words on the screen. Another rule is to avoid the getting to know
you. Don’t try to get to know her over text message
if you first met her. Save that for in person. Don’t try to do any kind of like questions
about what she’s into, or getting to know her interests, or her values or anything like
that. Do it in person. Don’t do it over text. Text message is just the vessel for logistical
purposes so you can meet up with her. If you want to learn more about texting, if
you want to get really deep into texting, and with more examples in every little situation
you could possibly think of, go to trippadvice.com/ blog and get the Ultimate Guide To Texting.. It’s right there on the blog. If you’re watching this when I put it out,
it’s going to be one of the first blog post. If you’re watching this like a year after
I put this video out, don’t worry, it’s still up there and we’re not taking it down. Sift through a couple of blog posts. Look for the ultimate guide to texting. You’ll learn every little aspect that you
need to learn. I’m going to be putting out some more videos
on texting in the next few weeks here. Again, if you’re watching this a year later,
check out my other texting videos because you’re going to learn more stuff that’s not
going to be necessarily in the ultimate guide. But everything’s a compliment, learn it all. Watch it all. Take the notes, learn this stuff, implement
it. I hope that you see success from it. Don’t forget to subscribe to the channel. We’re putting out videos every single week. Thanks for watching. I’ll see you next time.

Comments (100)

  1. Hello fellow virgins

  2. Thanks, we are Married and expecting a child lmao.

  3. Hello fellow virgins

  4. It worked she said ……………………….

  5. Yo, so I hooked up with this girl but because I am retarded, I fucked up the text game by texting her pointlessly everyday.

    Now I am gonna text her maybe beginning of next week or week after that. Anyone got any advice on how I should proceed? For now I am thinking of saying “hey I know you been busy with work and all. Hoping to speak soon whenever you are good ?” or should I start the convo with OMG what are you doing? Lmao your boy out here struggling please help

    I already know what I’ll say next when she responds and all. Will keep it quick short and funny and then ask her for her schedule. But if y’all got any pointers or examples on how I should ask for her schedule, I would really appreciate it :/

  6. It’s technique

  7. Just saying, I’m a girl but uhm if you text her saying to meet up you’ll get blocked because some girls might think your a pedophile ;-;

  8. Anyone wants to try it, but not brave enough to do it?

  9. How to Text à girlfriend on the first time…

  10. Turns out I'm pregnant, welp never using my d*ck again

  11. Fucking shit advice man, u literally talk like a wet virgin

  12. Well i did not understand and now i am dateing my dog. ?

  13. I talked to a girl over an hour and we were laughing with each other ( in class ?? )

  14. Wait…. guys actually watch these? I guess they are just really good at hiding crushes

  15. T1>R1>T2>R2>C=MATH

  16. I cannot feel efection after these past 3 months

  17. Lol im A Girl But i Want My Bff To like meh

  18. can u make a video about what not to ask a girl

  19. Hi fellow single boys

  20. ѕσяяу ѕιя вυт ι ∂ση'т ѕтєαℓ

  21. Wow you got me blocked.

  22. Thanks you got me fuckin rejected

  23. I just texted the girl and she suddenly blocked me for no reason

  24. Lol this faka makes talking to girls look like rocket science with formulas nd shit?

  25. Hey fellow virgins

  26. Was this made from a 70 year old?

  27. In included the speech marks and for some reasons she didn't reply

  28. I'm really good at approaching girls but not yet texting, still need to work on it!! I show my subscribers videos of me approaching girls and how easy it could be. The funny thing I was super weird most of my life ?

  29. You got me blocked and you talked to much don’t watch this guy

  30. Just get to the fuc*ing point

  31. Im watching this in 2019

  32. finnaly thank u i got a girl to go places with me and i smashed
    that hole
    forgot about virginity hehe finally gone

  33. This feels like a presentation at school

  34. For me is like Dr Jones heading to the cave to get the Golden Idol

  35. Dude I'm more smarter than you' I just overdo it sometimes ??

  36. How about texting with someone you don't wanna meet..

  37. Okay bro I'm trynna learn to do better text Wis wit the females and this video honestly made me worse somehow ? no one has convos like this it don't work u coming off weird asf

  38. This is confusing. I have my crush in my science class and I first started by finding her on insta and asking her for help on an assignment. Then we just starting texting each other all night

  39. Friend: Are you gonna text her?
    Me: No, I don't think I will

  40. It's all about "iF she likes you"

  41. Well I fucked up big time

  42. Ok no offence, but I am not calling her "missy". In fact, if I ever use the word "missy", you have my blessing to show up at my house armed, take me out behind the shed, and fire.

  43. do not fucking do this

  44. how the f*ck did you get their number?

  45. Me:*Stole dis to text my crush*
    My crush:Ohh I always looking for a tips from Tripp advice too

  46. hit me with that movie's link please

  47. 11 million single boy like me??

  48. Are we all virgins

  49. Best advice I’ve ever gotten: pick up the phone and use it as it was intended. I.e. CALL her. Stop hiding your dick behind text messages. It is so rare nowadays, girls get super impressed. And if she’s a flake, you’ll find out right there and then and not waste your time. If she doesn’t answer, leave a voicemail saying that it was nice meeting her the other day, who you are and that you want to take her out and give a couple of options for days. If she doesn’t call back, follow up with another call 2 days later. If still no response, move on and don’t waste your time.

  50. Emotional breakdown?

    Hotel.Trivago?

  51. After the video we started dateing

  52. Be sure to read honest and real reviews left by users who have bought Text That Girl on my blog before you buy. Go to thecbreviews. com/text-that-girl-review/ (remove space before com). Thanks, Morley.

  53. She said I got that from YouTube

  54. hello fellow virgins

  55. Wtf !!! I thought this is apex legends season3 video with funny title ?

  56. I just wanted to text no meeting because I'm antisocial ?

  57. Thanks for the advice?
    My crush is now my girlfriend

  58. I could watch a Disney movie and get more advice from that

  59. My wife’s botyfriend said I could go on a date with her omg let’s go guys!

  60. Me: “hi”
    Girl: “hi”
    me: “so u come here often?”
    Girl: blocks me

  61. 1.never add to much emoji(atleast4
    2.never send no more than 2 messages
    3.dont write sentences
    4.flirt say hi and say bye?
    5 don’t ask to much question
    6.if she ignores don’t get mad(she prolly busy.
    7.ur welcome good luck

  62. So many other people say that they get blocked but im lucky my crush hasnt and she knows i like her and this doesnt help that much cause usually im on a video call with her but its always with 1 of my friends and its usually my friend who calls her for no reason

  63. All you guys thirsty ass virgins

  64. Goal goal goal goal

  65. Come on boys don't over think it.. Its as simple as feeling comfortable texting her and having fun.. If u over think it you won't know what to type

  66. Special moment me telling my crush I like her. I say ? she says ? then she say bye I have to go to the laundry with my mom, Me= damn

  67. You can’t text a hood bitch like that they gone reject me real quick

  68. This video to deep in to detail its like a math class

  69. Almost fell asleep ????? stop talking so much ?

  70. Cute girl I recognize from high school follows me on Instagram and likes some photos. I follow back, and she has no photos. So I messaged her "How am I supposed to get you're attention if I have no photos to like?"
    10 mins later she posts 2 selfies and the caption is a kiss emoji. so I messaged her again. I said "your selfies are very pretty"
    THE BITCH BLOCKED ME.. WHAT??? WTF DID I DO WRONG?

  71. lmao my goal isn’t to hookup with the girl I’m in love with I just wanna advance in our friendship ?

  72. HOW DO YOU TEXT A Girl that your friend send you and she do not know you

  73. Missy?? Ah hell nah

  74. Bruh they patched this glitch.

  75. What if it's someone that you know but you don't really talk much? How will you text her

  76. Me : you'll never guess what I'm doing right now
    Her : what?
    Me : talking to you, you dumb bitch

    I'm single btw, wonder why ..

  77. I did message her “ youll never guess what im doing right now…” and message me back “guess what, I DONT GIVE A FUCK!” bruh

  78. Mine is semi dry it’s weird

  79. In Fb messenger i waved at all the girls i like but if they dont respond ill find another that is interested

  80. Thank u this got me in a nearly 5 year relationship

  81. Its not fair how people make great vids for how to text girls but the vids for texting guys dont say much

  82. 48-hour rule is for amateurs. Use the 24-hour rule. Thank me later

  83. Me:hi
    Her:I love YOU
    me:really?
    her:TUBE!
    ME:WASTED:((((

  84. Man your voice sucks man!?

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